Podrška u teškim vremenima: Muž na ogledalu načinio popis razloga zbog kojih voli suprugu

Molly je žena koja se bori protiv depresije. Nedavno je došla kući s puta i zatekla nešto neobično i divno - muž joj je na ogledalu u spavaćoj sobi ostavio popis stvari zbog kojih je voli i koje voli kod nje. 

Korisnica Imgura Molly podijelila je fotografije i napisala: "U posljednje vrijeme sam bila depresivna. Srećom, moj muž je znao šta treba napraviti. 

Mnogo obaveza, nastojanje da se sve stigne, želja za napretkom... brak, nedovoljno novca za vjenčanje... udaljavanje od prijatelja... Ipak, moj muž zna šta treba napraviti da me oraspoloži i da sve izgleda bolje."

Nadalje je u svom postu na Imguru Molly priznala da nije bila "najlakša" osoba za suradnju i brak jer pati od duševne bolesti. 

"Uprkos svemu moj muž me drži za ruku i daje sve od sebe da mi pomogne", napisala je Molly. 

Na kraju Molly zaključuje: "Mislim da je htio da se sjetim koliko me voli jer on zna kako lako to zaboravim. Ona zna kako mi je teško boriti se i vidjeti dobro u svijetu, posebno dobro u sebi. I evo, tu je dokaz njegove ljubavi, upravo ono što mi je trebalo". 

Ovo je njen muž napisao na ogledalu: 

Ona je moja najbolja prijateljica

Nikad ne odustaje od mene ili od sebe

Ona mi daje vremena za rad na mojim ludim projektima

Ona čini da se smijem svaki dan

Ona je prekrasna

Ona me prihvata ludog kakav jesam

Ona je najljubaznija osoba koju znam

Ima prekrasan glas

Ona je išla u striptiz klubu sa mnom

Ona je doživjela tešku tragediju, ali je najoptimističnija osoba koju poznajem

Ona me u potpunosti podržava u mome poslu

Ona nesvjesno čini da radim stvari za nju koje ne bih radio ni za koga drugog

Ona je učinila nevjerovatno mnogo za svoju karijeru

Majušne životinje čine je sretnom

Ponekad kad se smije - rokće

Živjela ljubav!

The list says: 1. she is my best friend2. she never quits on herself or me3. she gives me time to work on my crazy projects4. she makes me laugh, everyday5. she is gorgeous6. she accepts the crazy person i am7. she&#039;s the kindest person i know8. she&#039;s got a beautiful singing voice9. she&#039;s gone to a strip club with me10. she has experienced severe tragedy yet is the most optimistic person about humanity i know11. she has been fully supportive about my career choices and followed me each time12. without realizing it, she makes me want to do more for her than i have ever wanted to do for anyone13. she&#039;s done an amazing job at advancing her career path14. small animals make her cry15. she snorts when she laughs<a rel="noreferrer nofollow" target="_blank" href="https://www.facebook.com/TymmyWho">https://www.facebook.com/TymmyWho</a><a class="imgur-image" data-hash="lCYGGb8" href="//imgur.com/lCYGGb8.jpg">http://imgur.com/lCYGGb8</a>I&#039;ve been juggling a LOT lately. Trying to do well at work. Just got married. Couldn&#039;t afford a wedding. Family is sparse. Falling out with friends, yaddadyadda. But, the thing is, amidst all the struggle, my husband has relentlessly tried to cheer me up. I&#039;ve not been the easiest person to deal with. In fact, sometimes I&#039;ve lost all hope and even taken my anger out on my new husband. But he somehow forgives me every time. I have a long journey ahead of me, and I know he probably realizes I&#039;m depressed. But he holds my hand, and he tries his best. Today when I came home from a trip to SF, I flopped onto my bed in tears. I looked to my left, and saw these words painted all across my mirror. I think he wanted me to remember how much he loves me. Because he knows how quickly I forget. He knows I struggle to see good in the world, and especially the good in myself. But here it is. A testament and gesture of his love. Damn, I needed it today...I&#039;m not saying mental illness is cured by nice words on a mirror. In fact, it takes professional care, love, empathy, sometimes even medication just to cope. Many people struggle with it mental illness - more than we probably even realize. And instead of showing them hate or anger when they act out. Show them kindness and remind them things can and WILL get better. Everyone needs a little help sometimes. If that person can&#039;t be you - see if you have any resources for therapy.EDIT: The thing is... I am not &quot;too good&quot; or &quot;not good enough&quot; for my husband. We all have our down days. And sometimes we don&#039;t handle it well. BUT, we are partners. He is here for me when I&#039;m down. And I cherish that. And he has his down days, too. And I will be there to hold his hand, just like he holds mine. Life can be hard. The answer is never to mock, scoff, or belittle someone. Be kind. Be the best version of yourself. And be most of all- be patient.I&#039;m still struggling, but I&#039;m glad I have my other half to help me make it through. It may just be a few words on my mirror, but I&#039;ll look at them when I wake up and know I&#039;m not alone. I&#039;ll know I have my bestfriend, my co-pilot in life to help guide me through.

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